You read correctly! If you have been married more than 7 years and you have not done some major league marital therapy as of yet then your immense marital unhappiness is right on track where it is supposed to be. Are you surprised at that? If you are then you do not understand the nature […]
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Lacking Marital Happiness?
I had a very broken up fellow come to my office this week. He had been in tears for days about the eminent demise of his marriage. In describing his marriage to me he said that he and his wife had for years had “a lack of happiness” between them. There was something that jumped […]
Legitimate vs. Illegitimate Guilt
Many people are plagued with guilty feelings that bully them around causing them to wear shame like an amulet. This amulet seems to have special powers that ward off both truth and logic about the guilt inducing situations. Let’s honestly evaluate guilt, both legitimate and illegitimate. Perhaps in doing so real evaluations can be made […]
An Affair Absolutely Does NOT Have To End Your Marriage
This week we are going to tackle the overwhelming epidemic of marital issues – infidelity. If your marriage has been affected by an affair please try to be open and take in the concepts that I will share. Just like you are in our office getting Marriage Counseling in Indianapolis, I will discuss the root […]
Marital Nightmares
Bad things can happen when you least expect them to. I had one such unexpected, moderately nightmarish experience last Sunday. While tooling home on my Harley a young man inched out into my lane. When I slammed on my brakes my bike kept going but I hit the pavement with a very sickening and painful […]
Top Ten Reasons You Should Choose Family Tree Counseling
#1 We are very good at what we do – I only select caring, motivated, teachable, psychologically open, trustworthy therapists who have impeccable levels of integrity. They are all extremely fine people. I train them extensively in our highly effective family systems approach. I have been way overbooked as a therapist for 25 years. While […]